In many ways, my journey into mediumship began long before I understood what mediumship was.

My late grandfather, Eddie Paul, was a respected medium and spiritual healer. It is his surname that I use professionally today, both to honour him and the spiritual thread that has quietly run through my family.

As a child, I was deeply sensitive. I often experienced strong feelings, intuitions and moments of knowing that I couldn’t explain. At the time, I didn’t think of any of this as psychic or spiritual. I simply felt different.

Like many sensitive people, I became very good at adapting to the world around me. Growing up as a young gay man in West London, I learned how to read people, environments and situations quickly, often appearing far more confident on the outside than I felt within.

My life went on to take several unexpected paths.

I worked as a professional magician, travelled the world as cabin crew for Virgin Atlantic, joined the Metropolitan Police and eventually built my own business, a successful legal recruitment company with a multimillion turnover.

For more than fifteen years, my professional life revolved around people.

Recruitment taught me an enormous amount about human behaviour: what people say, what they don’t say, what motivates them, what frightens them and what they truly want from their lives.

Looking back, I can see that I was using my psychic sensitivity long before I would ever have described it that way.

I learned to trust instinct when assessing people and situations, to notice subtle changes in energy and behaviour and, perhaps most importantly, to recognise potential in people that they sometimes couldn’t yet see in themselves.

Building a successful business taught me many things, but one idea has remained particularly important to me:

Human beings are capable of far more than we often believe ourselves to be.

And that belief now sits at the heart of my psychic and spiritual work too.

Searching for Something More

From the outside, life often looked exciting and accomplished.

Internally, however, I carried a persistent feeling that something was missing.

Over the years I experienced addiction, difficult relationships, burnout, questions around identity and what I now understand as a profound period of spiritual crisis.

Despite achieving many of the things we are told should make us happy, I often felt disconnected from myself and unsure of what I was actually searching for.

Everything began to change in my early thirties.

During a conversation with my mum, I spoke openly about my fear of death. She handed me a book about near-death experiences, and something within me shifted.

Until then, I had largely viewed life through a logical and material lens.

For the first time, I allowed myself to seriously ask a question that would ultimately change the direction of my life:

Does consciousness continue beyond physical death?

That question became a search.

It eventually led me to the Arthur Findlay College, a centre dedicated to mediumship and the psychic sciences.

I arrived looking for evidence that life continued.

What happened there challenged much of what I thought I understood.

I began witnessing experiences that raised profound questions about consciousness, but something even more unexpected happened: I began giving evidential messages myself.

I found myself sharing memories, personality traits and pieces of information with people I had never met and could not have known through ordinary means.

It felt less like discovering something completely new and more like remembering a part of myself that had been there all along.

What Mediumship Means to Me

Since then, I have continued to study, practice and deepen my understanding of mediumship through respected teachers, demonstrations, private readings and, most importantly, direct experience. I have also spent many years studying at the Arthur Findlay College, the forefront college for the advancement of psychic sciences.

For me, mediumship should always be about healing, love and connection.

The bonds we form with one another are not simply erased when physical life comes to an end.

In a mediumship reading, my intention is to create the space for evidence, memories, personality and emotion to emerge naturally.

I believe mediumship at its best can be profoundly healing.

Not because it removes grief or gives us every answer, but because sometimes a familiar memory, characteristic or moment of recognition can change the way we understand our relationship with someone who is now in the spirit world.

No two readings are the same because no two people, relationships or spirit communicators are the same.

Psychic & Tarot Work

Mediumship is only one part of what I do.

I also offer psychic and tarot readings in Bristol and online, working with people who may be navigating relationships, career changes, uncertainty, personal growth or simply a feeling that something within their life is asking to change.

My relationship with psychic work feels very natural because, in many ways, I have been using those senses throughout my entire life.

Tarot, in particular, has been part of my spiritual journey from the beginning. I see the cards less as a way of dictating a fixed future and more as a mirror.

They can reveal patterns.

Possibilities.

The places where we may be limiting ourselves.

And sometimes the potential we have forgotten is there.

My intention in a psychic or tarot reading is never to take somebody’s power away by telling them what they must do.

Quite the opposite.

I want people to leave feeling more connected to themselves, more aware of the choices available to them and more confident in their own ability to shape their lives.

Because one of the deepest beliefs I carry is that you are not simply the circumstances that have happened to you.

You are a soul with extraordinary capacity for growth, change and possibility.

Why I Do This Work

My own life has taught me how dramatically things can change.

I have known periods of success and periods when everything seemed to fall apart.

I have lost myself and found myself again.

I have known what it is to be frightened of the future, frightened of death and unsure of who I was supposed to become.

Those experiences are part of what I bring into the room with me.

My role is to meet another human being where they are, to work honestly with what I receive and, hopefully, create an experience that offers something meaningful.

That might be evidence that helps someone feel the continued presence of a person they love.

It might be clarity around a difficult decision.

It might be seeing a possibility in their life that they had stopped believing was available to them.

Or it might simply be leaving the room feeling a little less afraid.

Ultimately, everything I do comes back to healing.

Helping people understand themselves.

Helping people recognise their own potential.

Helping people feel less alone.

And through mediumship, helping people explore what I believe to be one of the great truths of our existence: that consciousness continues and that love is not ended by physical death.

Soul Sync

Alongside my private readings and demonstrations of mediumship, I host the Soul Sync podcast.

Soul Sync is an extension of the same curiosity that first led me towards mediumship.

Through conversations with mediums, researchers, teachers and people who have experienced profound transformation, I explore consciousness, healing, spirituality, human potential and what it might mean to live a more authentic life.

I don’t believe curiosity requires blind belief.

Whether through the podcast, a reading or a demonstration of mediumship, I want there to be room for questions.

Room for exploration.

And room for people to arrive exactly as they are.

My hope is that everything I do leaves people with a little more connection, a little more possibility and perhaps a little less fear about what it means to be human.

My Journey into mediumship